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Saturday 8-8-2026

Pamela Schifano – @pammypoo on Substack

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I am just home from the cafe because it looked like we were in for a heavy rain. Brian just texted me to make sure my windows and balcony door were secure because it looked like we might be in for a squall.

“A squall is a sudden, sharp increase in wind speed that lasts for several minutes, usually accompanied by rain, snow, or thunderstorms. It can also mean a loud, harsh cry, like a screaming baby.”

The sky has a line of really dark clouds now. I have brought in my drying rack off my balcony and secured things as well as possible. We haven’t had one of these since I’ve been here, so I’ll be interested to see what happens.

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This is the sketch I finished at the cafe today. I also finished some thank you cards and started a sketch of a squirrel holding an acorn.

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We went to visit Harvey this morning. When we walked in, both hands were tied up in big blown up bags. It turns out he was trying to remove his oxygen cannula again, and this was the only way to keep him from doing that. We took one off in order to get the thumb prints we needed for the renewal of his 90-day medical visa, and also to give him an orange drink. When he finished that, I blinked and he was removing the cannula, so we tied his hand back up. I explained to him AGAIN how important it is that he stay on the oxygen. (The low blood oxygen was what caused MY heart to stop twice in February of 2025). I’m not sure if it got through or not, but the bags will make SURE the cannula stays in. Otherwise, he seemed comfortable and was cooperative about doing the thumb prints, so I guess we can call it a good visit, though I felt exhausted and sad when I got home.

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Tuesday 7-28-2026

Maje Baker – @majebaker on Substack

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We went to visit Harvey this morning. Today was one of the really challenging visits, in that it wasn’t clear he recognized us or cared that we had come. He said a couple of things that made no sense. He squeezed my hand and that was it for the visit.

We have two trips to the hospital the first week in August – that means that we COULD be scheduled to see him four times next week. We’ll need to study when we need to be at the hospital and make some decisions. The only thing absolute at this point is that we’ll visit again this Saturday.

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I just came back from spending time at the cafe. My server came and got me, telling me ‘my place’ had become vacant and helping me move. I hugged her. I finished two drawings and started a third.

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I moved my laundry on and off my balcony several times today. Right now it’s ON the balcony. I’m hoping that things will be dry enough to bring them in before bed and they’ll finish drying overnight. The rainy season is a challenge, but I only actually do my undies and incidentals where I’m worried about the rain. Brian does my sheets and towels because he has washing machine (but no dryer). His balcony is large enough that unless the rain is blowing in his direction, he can get things dry even if it rains. I take the rest of my clothes to the laundry service. Laborious, but it works. :0)

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I met a man and his two sons on the elevator today. The older man (he may have even been as old as I am (imagine that!) asked me how old I was. I told him and he exclaimed that I looked to be in really good shape (my back was straight, he mentioned in particular). It made me feel good that he thought I was doing okay for an old lady…

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Marilyn Houff – Positivity in Life

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Sunday 6-7-2026

Nick Mackman -Dart Gallery – Dartmouth Devon

This lady is such a talented sculptor. I’m in awe of her work.

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This is the newest addition to Harvey’s “Happy Wall” at the nursing home. He seemed pleased with it, though didn’t remember that we cut this out of sheet metal, making a mailbox decoration. He said once that he likes waking up to the pictures on his wall, so I’m trying to make sure that I take additions to it on a regular basis. The next one will be Saturday, when I take him our 57th wedding anniversary painting.

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Yesterday the workmen finished cleaning up the porch area that is being redone at the cafe we like. They then spent the day spreading cement, patiently waiting for an area to be ready for another smoothing. They were still there, finishing up, cleaning up after the cement work, at about 6:30 last night. I don’t know what happens next.

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I’m working on several sketches at once. I’m doing the base painting on some, plus some more thank you cards today. I’ll post one of them later today in one of my posts.

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I’m making a bit of progress – both on memorizing more chords, plus making a better sound – when I practice on the guitar the past couple of days. Still agonizingly slow, and my fingertips still complain vigorously after just a few minutes, but the progress IS there. The voice still sounds like a sick frog, but I’m the only one here to complain… 🤣🎸🎵

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Etsy

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