
“Distance doesn’t dim a strong friendship.”
Nora, one of my long time best friends from Arkansas, sent this to me yesterday. Michael, another long time friend and our hairdresser, reached out via email. A third, Sandi, caught me up on her health and her plans for the spring. Another sent me a message on chat.
- “Time doesn’t take away from friendship, nor does separation.” —Tennessee Williams, Memoirs
I have never had a LOT of friends. I have had a lot of acquaintances, but few close friends; so I feel so lucky that I can now put effort into keeping up with these wonderful people who mean so much to me.
- “A friend believes in you, especially when you don’t.”
Life gets in the way if you let it. You don’t MEAN to let weeks, months, and years pass without catching up, but it happens to all of us. Email and internet card places make it easier to show someone you miss them, you’re thinking of them, etc., but it’s difficult to even make time to do THAT anymore.
I lost one of my long time best ever friends last month. We emailed every day, sometimes more than once, but at least we got to tell each other how very much we meant to each other. I’m trying to make a point of checking on the people I care about, even if it’s just a quick email or chat message, to let them know how much I love them.
Friends in your life are priceless. Please join me in making them the priority that they are.























































































































Monday, 2-9-2026
“I found this picture and it spoke of joy. It made me wonder why people forget the importance of living. Maybe we get busy surviving and miss the simple truth—that life is not meant to be endured alone, but noticed, felt, and quietly appreciated.” –
John Rinaldo– “The Positive Pen” – Substack
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It is a glorious day today here in Chiang Mai. It’s 81 degrees, F. The sun is shining. My windows are open to a wonderful breeze.
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I went to the gym this morning for the first time in a week! I walked a mile on the treadmill and still felt good. No sneezing, blowing my nose, almost passing out, or any other drama. HOORAY!!!!!
I plan to do yoga stretches later and I used the stairs in my building this morning!
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I’ve started painting a sketch I did Friday, and hope to do several today. Brian and I aren’t going out any more today since there was a sign posted for all vehicles to keep the street clear yesterday and today. I do hope that something happens today on the street; otherwise, people may ignore a sign to stay off the road next time.
We just had a tremendously loud BANG here. I texted Brian and he said it was “probably a transformer explosion.” Apparently, this is quite common, though I have to admit, it will take some getting used to… 💥 I did have to restart my computer before I could continue here, but Brian seemed unconcerned, saying “there might be other weird electrical problems for a bit.”
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In my efforts to lose my lard, my son Brian and I agreed that we would eat twice a day, breakfast and dinner, and have something like an iced mocha in the afternoons, or chocolate drink after we visit my husband, Harvey. Most of the time I do quite well with this, and am now within 4 lbs of my goal. Other times, though, my stomach insists my throat has been cut, demanding food. I usually drink a glass of water, but decided that if I had a bite of beef jerky, that would tide me over on those challenging days. Part of Brian’s text about the explosion included, “Jerky at your door.” I now have a package of “Natural Smoked Pork Jerky!” I will try to only eat a bite when my stomach is really growling after a glass of water. YUM!
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I’m trying to figure out a way to repost an article on cats that made me laugh out loud. It’s being recalcitrant so far, but hopefully I can share it with you.
Have a joy-filled “noticed, felt, and appreciated” day.
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