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Friday 10-2-2026

Inspired by This

Adam Bierton

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I’ve just gotten back from spending a nice time at the cafe. I got my favorite spot, and sat, enjoying an iced latte, sketching. My time there really helps me keep my head on straight, concentrating on trying to get a sketch down on paper, equalizing concerns about my husband.

He is really antsy lately. We will visit him tomorrow, but he has asked his nurse to call Brian two days in a row now. He basically wants his life to be as it used to be, where he was able to do what he wanted when he wanted. He wants to go ‘home,’ though he isn’t sure where that is, where HE is, or how to get there. We will talk to the nursing home staff (the owner now is an ER physician) and Harvey’s neurosurgeon who monitors him quarterly, is in charge of his meds, and helps us renew Harvey’s medical visa – to see what they think about this new antsy-ness and what their recommendations are. Tuesday when we visited, he had a whole list he had tried to write of things he needed or wanted. The nurse sent us a video after the phone call showing Harvey trying to make yet another list…

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Here are my latest painted sketches –

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Today I had my massage this morning (ahhhh!) and Brian and I had our Friday special treat. THIS time, though, the lady from whom we buy the treats put in an extra box with our order, saying it was a new thing she was trying out. The normal thing is a creme brûlée, and the extra looked like a round waffle. We have had three things from this lady, and ALL are simply melt-in-your-mouth decadent. We also had her lemonade, which is the best I have ever tasted, so I’ve been well fed today, and dinner is yet to come!

My house is spotless, thanks to my hard-working housekeeper. Yes – I’m hopelessly spoiled now.

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Dianne Lederman

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Saturday 9-19-2026

Anna B. – @bornforart.bsky.social

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Today was a rainy day. We got rained on going to and from the gym. Again going to and from a visit with Harvey at the nursing home. Again to and from the cafe, and it rained while I was there. And it will probably rain again this evening. Happily, my shoes didn’t get soaked this time, so I’m good to go.

Ugly American wasn’t at the gym this morning. I told Harvey about him. He thought we should shoot him. Failing that, he suggested Brian rig the treadmill so it would throw the guy off. We told him we thought both ideas weren’t proportional to the ‘crime’ of being annoying… 🤣

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I had a good session at the cafe. I started a sketch of an ugly frog named “Bob” that I got the reference photo from a lady named Kaitlin M. on Substack. I also started a sketch of an old movie theater.

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I started “Fury in Death” by J.D. Robb (Nora Roberts) yesterday. I confined myself to the prologue, since I don’t want to be drawn down into the rabbit hole. I absolutely love her writing and I could lose whole DAYS reading her books.

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Art van der Spek

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