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Customs in Thailand – Shoes

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“In Thailand, you must remove your shoes before entering someone’s home, temples, and sometimes, specific shops or small businesses, as a sign of respect and for cleanliness. If you see a pile of shoes outside or a shoe rack, it is a clear sign to take your shoes off. 

  • Where to Remove: Always remove shoes before entering a Thai home, regardless of how grand or humble it is. Shoes are mandatory to remove at temple interiors where Buddha images are housed, though not usually on the surrounding grounds.
  • Signs & Cues: If you see a pile of shoes at the entrance, a shoe rack, or even a few pairs outside a small shop, spa, or clinic, take your shoes off.
  • Reasoning: Feet are considered the dirtiest part of the body, and shoes are even dirtier, making this a crucial gesture of respect for the host’s space.
  • Tips: Wear easy slip-on shoes for convenience. If unsure, look to see if locals are wearing shoes and follow their lead.”

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This is a very important part of Thai culture. It was one of the first things I noticed when we first entered our condo building. There were pairs of shoes outside some of the condo doors. When Brian showed us the air-bnb where we would be staying while we waited for the condo paperwork for our own condo to be finalized, the first thing we learned to do was take off our shoes before entering ours or anyone else’s condo. (If there are no shoes outside the door, you remove your shoes as soon as you enter.)

Both my husband and I had problems getting our shoes off without having a place to sit down, and even more trouble trying to get them back on when we left, so one of the first errands we ran was to a shoe store. We both found Sketchers tennis shoes in their ‘Step-in’ model. We can simply toe off the shoes to enter a place, and then balancing on each other, we could simply step into our shoes when we left. These were the perfect solution for us.

Almost all of the places you have services, like massages, haircuts, mani/pedis, some doctor offices, etc. have shoes outside with racks of slippers for you to use while you are inside. It becomes second nature to check the doorway to see if you are supposed to remove you shoes or not.

Added details that I have learned are that places like our gym have a tray outside the door filled with water. They ask that you dip your shoe bottom in the tray and then use the big mat in front of the door to clean your shoes as much as possible before you enter. There is another mat inside where you make sure your shoes are as dry as possible before proceeding into the gym.

At my husband’s nursing home, there is one rack for leaving your shoes and another rack with slippers for you to wear. This is a difficult thing for me, as the slippers do not stay on my feet well. I tend to walk right out of them, or trip, or lose my balance. Brian holds my hand tightly as we walk down the hall to Harvey’s room and back out to the front porch when we leave.

Removing shoes seemed a bit weird to me when we first moved here. People’s feet may have odors, bare feet can seem really odd at first. But, when I thought about it more, I realized how very dirty your shoes can get walking around on the streets. You want to honor houses, shops, or temples by either wearing the slippers provided or simply leaving your shoes outside while you are allowed to enter. I now make it a practice to wash the bottoms and edges of my shoes on a regular basis, just because I look at them in a different way now.

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Customs in Thailand

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“The wai (ไหว้) is a traditional Thai greeting showing respect, gratitude, or an apology by placing palms together in a prayer-like gesture and bowing slightly. Key rules: the higher the hands (closer to the forehead), the more respect is shown. It is used for greetings, thanking, or saying goodbye. jonesyinthailand.comjonesyinthailand.com +4

Key Aspects of the Wai Custom

  • Levels of Respect:
    • Chest level: Used for peers, friends, or people of similar age.
    • Chin/Mouth level: Used for older people or those of higher status.
    • Nose/Forehead level: Used for monks, royalty, and religious icons.
  • How to Perform: Place palms together, usually accompanied by a slight bow.
  • When to Use: It is used to greet (sawasdee), thank, apologize, or say goodbye.
  • Etiquette for Foreigners: While tourists aren’t expected to initiate a wai to everyone, it is polite to return one.”

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This is one of the few phrases and customs I have learned so far Whenever we see anyone, we bow, we do the ‘wai’ and say

(pronunication – “sawat dee kah’-ah.) *If you are a female, this is correct. ) Luckily, Thai people are quite forgiving if you are a foreigner and you don’t have the wai at the correct level. They are happy that you are trying. I usually do mine just under my chin, since trying to figure out how old someone is, or if they have higher status, or, or, or, – is too much for this old lady. I smile, bow, and mangle the pronunciation as little as possible. If the people on the receiving end are pretty far away, I usually add a wave, since I always have things in my hands, and my carrier on my shoulder, and so have trouble freeing both hands at the same time for the wai.

The people are so very nice here. I now have several people who not only return my wai, they come over and patt me on the shoulder or back, or even hug me, so it’s a very pleasant way to honor the people you see.

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