Comfort

Ram Dass

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My sister-in-law and friend, ML, sent this to me recently. It’s only one example of how she is there for me.

If we are lucky, we may be able to call a very few people friends in our lives. I’m not talking of the many very pleasant people that we may enjoy particular activities or situations with for an amount of time. I’m talking about long term real friends that you love even though you don’t agree on everything, even though a lot of miles may be between you, even though you might not see each other very often – sometimes you might have even ‘met’ on the Internet and have NEVER actually met face to face. The bond is real, strong, and priceless.

It is comforting to realize that you are never really alone. You try to solve day to day problems, annoyances, issues, by yourself. But there are times when you reach out, needing to vent, needing to explain how you feel without having to worry about judgment, needing suggestions for how to deal with something, or even just someone to actually listen and ‘be there’ holding your hand or virtually hugging you to help you.

These friendships are priceless because they go both ways. You are there to listen, to be there for your friends, as well. Knowing this is something you carry with you, that you know you have if you need it.

This quote by Ram Dass reminds us in another way that we are not alone. That we all need help or can give help as needed. That “We are all just walking each other home.”

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  1. Liz's avatar Liz

    I like that quote. I have not come across this one before. 🙂

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  2. “This is so beautifully said. True friendship like this is rare and priceless. Having someone who listens, understands, and stands beside you through life—whether near or far—is such a blessing. Your words really capture the quiet strength and comfort of real friendship.”

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  3. I belive your words! I especially like Ram Dass’s quote. Let’s make the walk a good one!

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  4. Unknown's avatar Anonymous

    You know what a true friend is, because you are one.

    I had never heard that quote from Ram Dass before, and it so meaningful. Than you for sharing. (Donna)

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