This is the cute resident of this coffee shop where I enjoyed an iced mocha today. She goes right to sleep in the middle of the shop and everyone walks around her, or tries to get her to wake up and come over to visit them.
There is a really beautiful straw piece that is rolled down to unfold and shade the shop.
It is my firm opinion that these stools are much too pretty to sit on. Aren’t they great?
We stopped here on the way back home from visiting Harvey. The visit started out with the physical therapy guy getting Harvey out of bed and walking all the way out to the front porch. This is a real professional with a nice manner, very strong and experienced. He walks behind Harvey, with a safety belt tight around Harvey’s middle, supporting him while Harvey concentrates on trying to stand up straight, with his head up as high as possible, putting one step in front of the other. He rested for a few minutes in the wheel chair that one of the nurses wheeled behind him, and then the PT guy was trying to get him up to walk back. Harvey wanted coffee and decided to try to “order” it then and there. The guy played along, saying he would get a cup of coffee if he walked back to his bed. Harvey refused at first, and then finally gave in – and got his cup of coffee.
Harvey’s attitude is embarrassing. Instead of being grateful that he is in a nice place, with good food, and caring, attentive people to try to help him, he acts like a greedy child. He seems to have lost the ability to think beyond what he wants, trying to order everyone around. When he tried to do it with Brian, Brian told him not to order him around, and we abruptly left. We’re not at all sure that our actions will get through to him, but we figured it was worth a shot. We’re hoping that this is a phase he’s going through and he will start acting more like himself in the coming months. It’s hard to see him this way, but we of course have no control over his hoped-for recovery.
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So beautiful you sharing resident of this coffee shop. You enjoyed an iced mocha. Wonderful these stools are much too pretty to you sit on.☺️! How are you doing? I hope your’s husband recovered . God bless you 😇.
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I’m glad you enjoyed the post about the coffee shop. My husband is in a difficult stage right now. I hope this is a passing phase, because this is not who my husband is.
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You are glad you like ,I enjoyed your Post. That’s very badly, don’t mind.
Iam so sorry ,Linda 😞.
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Thank you.🙂
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My pleasure 😊
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My pleasure
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That’s all we can do!
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I love the coffee shop pooch and am going to start calling him coffee or mocha (in my head)! Ha!
I love the barstool too!
As for Harvey’s attitude, my husband gets into those kinds of spirals too. Last night was one of them. I say to myself, “He’s brain injured.” And do my best to speak softer and have patience. But I fail sometimes. Hugs!
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Hugs right back to you, Sheila. It’s hard to deal with, isn’t it. One day at a time.
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Unfortunately, Harvey’s behavior is expected: stroke survivors may exhibit changes in social behavior, such as being less aware of social cues or making inappropriate comments. Also, mood swings, depression, fatigue, changes in taste and smell, and a lack of interest in activities. I’d say the nursing home has a lot to deal with. Remember that mood swings are a result of the stroke and may not be a personal reflection. Stay calm, be empathetic, and try to accept Harvey’s behavior.
Not all side effects after a stroke are treatable, but many are. Some temporary conditions can be resolved with rehabilitation, while others may be permanent. Some stroke-related issues, like temporary weakness or balance problems, can improve with therapy and time. Others, like cognitive deficits or physical limitations, may be permanent. The severity and duration of stroke side effects depend on the location and size of the stroke, as well as individual factors.
When communicating with a stroke survivor, it’s crucial to be sensitive and avoid hurtful or dismissive phrases. Some common mistakes include implying they are “looking great” without acknowledging their internal struggles, assuming a fixed timeline for recovery, and using phrases that make them feel like their cognitive difficulties are a sign of diminished intelligence. Instead, focus on empathy, patience, and adapting your communication style to their specific needs. If Harvey becomes verbally or physically aggressive, try not to raise your voice, since it won’t help if you become angry too. Leave him alone until he has calmed down.
I’m sure you’ve heard it before, but patience is key here! Sending a big hug, Linda! 🙂
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Thanks for the information AND the big hug, Susy. Both are much appreciated. I guess I’ll have to get over being embarrassed when his behavior is awful or what he says is completely inappropriate or downright cruel and hurtful, or ordering people around. I don’t like it, but I’m beginning to accept that what is, IS, and I have no control over it.
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You should take one of the art/ factory tours offered by the various hotels & watch th
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It’s on my list!🤗
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U will love it! My thoughts & prayers go to you w/ your struggles w/ your dear spouse. A year ago I was where you are now ! Mine ended when his bowel twisted & “we” opted for no surgery! 5 days later he was gone. We just don’t know when our “due/ use by date comes!Sent from my iPad
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I’m sorry for your loss. You’re so right about not knowing when or how our time will be up. I’m still shocked that mine almost came in February. If I hadn’t been in the hospital, that would have been it for me. SO grateful to have been given a second chance, and trying to make the most of it now. I hope you’re building a satisfying/fun life for yourself now. Live every day to the fullest, squeezing every drop of joy out of it that you cqn. Thanks so much for writing.❤️
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👍👍💕to u too! Hang
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🤗
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Sent from my iPad
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Sorry, I didn’t see your comment here.
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