Day 3

Thank you to all of you who are bearing with me, only writing about my husband’s health lately. Please just skip over these and I hope I’ll be back soon with my more normal posts.

This is day 3 of my husband’s surgery for a stroke and fall. He is doing better. The surgery cleared the two arteries in his brain that were completely occluded and damage from the blockage was minimal, the doctors say. They are now focusing on his low heartbeats per minute and low blood pressure. This improved yesterday, and I’m hoping it will today, as well, so they will be able to take out the breathing tube

I long to hear his voice, hoping he can speak. I hope he is alert enough that we can explain his situation more clearly, see if he is able to walk without problem in the near future, and what the doctors recommend.

Our son and I are spending almost the entire visiting hours at his side, except when they are doing something where they ask us to leave for half an hour or so. There is a waiting area right down the hall. Otherwise we are watching the monitors, watching him, seeing the good care he is receiving, and are available if a doctor comes and wants to talk with us.

No one can no the future – even the good doctors.
We are all essentially waiting and doing all we can for him. We are there every time he opens his eyes, taking his hand, kissing his forehead, letting him know he isn’t alone. It’s sad that they are having to restrain his hands and feet, but it is essential now that he not disrupt the equipment. He tends to flail a lot when not restrained, putting himself and the equipment in danger.

Brian and I enjoyed a nice delivered breakfast of eggs and cheese, bacon, and a salad. We then took a walk to the laundry farther out, out by our koi pond, since the one in the building was closed. He showed me that he weighed the bag of laundry on a scale. There was a chart on the wall re the cost of the weight. He put the ticket with his name, phone number and email address and the payment in a bag and then put the bag inside the tied up laundry bag. Then there was a chute where you dropped your laundry. He says they will call or email him when the clothes are ready to be picked up. Interesting system!

We visited the koi for a bit and then continued our walk around the block. We will leave again in a minute to get a Grab to take us to the hospital for the day.

I hope to bring good news, and more regular blog posts in the coming days. Thanks again for bearing with me during this scary time.

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  1. anncacampbell@gmail.com's avatar anncacampbell@gmail.com

    Dear Linda,Absolutely want to hear about Harvey and how he is doing. I know it is very stressful for you and I

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    • He is doing better today. His heart beats per minute are in the normal range. His blood pressure is moving up, too. He MAY get the breathing tube out this afternoon. Fingers crossed. Brian is with me, and I thank God for that.

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  2. It’s so hard to fathom how quickly things like this can happen! I know you were both still acclimating to your new environment, and even continuing to get things setup. So, I can only imagine how your feeling. My heart goes out to you, Linda! And prayers and best thoughts for your dear husband’s swift recovery. Hugs!

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  3. rajkkhoja's avatar rajkkhoja

    Thanks God,Linda! Surgery is successful & he is normal. Now he ready to walk. God bless you. My heart goes out to you, Linda! And prayers and best thoughts for your dear husband’s swift recovery. Hugs!

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  4. Unknown's avatar Anonymous

    prayers for you, your husband, and son.
    what a journey you have been on.

    Patty SD

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