
Charter for Compassion via Cathy Ruggiero
This is a reminder I needed. I realize I’m getting older, and I fight the urge for comfort, particularly when it comes to trying to learn new things – but it’s HARD.
Last night was a case in point. My husband ordered a remote that was supposed to be an omniscient being that would take the place of our having to juggle remotes constantly. (Besides having to decide WHICH remote is appropriate for what we’re trying to do, we find ourselves trying to control the TV with our calculators or our phones….)
The idea was a nice one, but the jury is still out on whether I can deal with a remote that is smarter than I am.
First, we found that it really can’t control everything we would like it to.
- Since Dish and CBS are feuding, we got an antenna so that we can at least keep up with the programs we like – IF we can figure out when they are and actually BE there to watch, rather than being able to automatically tape them and watch them when we have the time. The new remote WILL control the antenna.
- The remote WILL control the Dish satellite stuff, and we can access what we’ve taped.
- The remote WILL control the amplifier we use for the volume of whatever we’re watching – we just need to remember to turn OFF whatever volume we were listening to and switch to the other one, if necessary, or else we have TWO different sounds from two different programs playing at the same time.
- The new remote WILL allow us to mute the sound if we get a phone call, or freeze the program we were watching.
The new remote WILL NOT deal with the Wii Fit Plus. We would need to buy an adaptor, and it just isn’t worth it. I’ll just get up (which I was going to do anyway), turn on the Wii, and get ready to listen to the insults.
The new remote WILL NOT control our Playstation3 (that we use as a DVD player) since it is radio controlled, not LED controlled.
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I got really upset trying to work with it. As my husband lost patience with me, I reacted to HIM, rather than being able to even TRY to think about what I was doing wrong on the remote. We ended up going bowling with our friends, and then doing a second lesson. I did better this time, and my husband regretted making my previous lesson so stressful.
All this shows that I’m really getting averse to not knowing how to control something, resisting change, being intimidated by things I don’t understand, rather than calmly trying to figure them out.
This reminder, which I will print and post beside my computer, will remind me that I NEED to keep an open, curious mind; NOT be intimidated when I don’t catch on right away, and – most of all – keep an attitude that I CAN master things if I keep on working at them.