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Frustrated

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Two dear friends of mine are in rough patches, and all I can do is listen – trying to let them know I care.

One has problems at work. Co-workers are undermining themselves and each other, causing problems for the whole office. My friend isn’t in a position to do anything definitive and has to not only continue to work with these people, but also try to get them to work together, try to keep them from fighting when possible customers enter the office, and try to keep from pulling her hair out. Bad situation, and I can’t think of any reasonable thing to even suggest. :0)

Another friend has family problems. She is normally a really funny, devil-may-care, enthusiastic person, but family problems have made her quiet and sad. I’ve reminded her that I’m here, that I can listen, and that I care about her, but I’m frustrated that I can’t wave a magic wand and ‘fix’ things. I hate to see her hurting.

I’ll keep thinking about things. I’ll hope to hear from them, and reach out again if I don’t. I know that they would both help me if I had a problem. I’m lucky to have both of these ladies as good friends. I hope I can figure out something I can do…

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Request Delivered

I got the extra package of horseshoes from Michael when he cut my hair this afternoon.

I brought them home and my husband and I got busy, trying to finish the project.

This picture gives you the best idea of what we did. The difference is that our tree is larger, having 5 horseshoes across the bottom of the tree, instead of the 4 you see here. We also put a straight piece on top of the top horseshoe so that Michael could put a star ornament on the top.

We took it right to him when we finished. I didn’t even get to take a picture of it with my phone!

The look on Michael’s face when we brought it into his shop was a joy for us. He really seemed pleased with the finished product. He’s such a nice person and takes such good care of both of us, it felt good to be able to give him a small ‘thank you.’

I wish we could take credit for the design. We found a number of clever ideas on the net. There are a lot of creative people out there!

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Feeling Stupid

Michael, the wonderful man who cuts our hair, asked us if we could help him make a horseshoe tree. We, of course, said, “Sure!”

 

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He sent us a text with a picture showing the tree he wanted us to make. We got the horseshoes from him today when we went in for my husband’s haircut.

For some reason, even though the picture was on my phone, we were unable to get it off the phone onto the computer so we could print one large enough to see the details. I went on the net and found a picture and printed it. (above)

We came home and got to work. The horseshoes didn’t fit as well as we would like, so we modified some of them to emulate the picture as much as possible. We got most of the tree welded together, noticing we were 3 horseshoes short. We got the tree made, but only had one horseshoe of the 4 needed for the base.

When I got on my phone to text Michael, I saw the pic he sent again. It was this one –

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Gulp. We were short because we made the wrong one. :0(

Michael was really nice, saying he’ll have the extra group of horseshoes at the salon when I go for MY haircut tomorrow.

My husband is embarrassed because he couldn’t get the pic off my phone. I’M embarrassed because I didn’t pay enough attention to detail. It’s a really good thing Michael is understanding.

Hopefully, we can finish the tree tomorrow and take it to him at work this week.

With friends like us….

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New Adventure!

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Today I spent a delightful afternoon with Kay, a long-time friend from Friday Lunch Bunch.

I mentioned that I was trying to learn to can food using both the hot water bath method and the pressure canning method. I knew that Kay was a canner (if you’ll pardon the expression). I asked her if it would be really annoying if I came over and watched (and hopefully helped) her the next time she planned to can something.  Luck was with me! She agreed to let me watch her, and told me that she was planning to can green beans and tomato sauce this afternoon!

I rode home with her from Lunch Bunch. My husband had agreed to come pick me up at Kay’s house when I called him later.

I’ve read a lot on canning and had a vague idea what was involved, but I’m a visual learner. It was truly wonderful to watch Kay at work, visiting as she did each step, with me scribbling down notes as each step came and went.

She told me several good tips that she’s learned over the years. She answered questions, and some of the things she did brought up others.  She said I could call if I had other questions.

Kay used the pressure cooker to can the green beans (a low acid veggie.) She gathers the beans from her garden (she also has friends who bring her veggies, plus she goes to the Farmer’s Market, as I do.)  She washes the beans, cuts them up, dries them and freezes them in ziplock freezer bags until she has enough to can. (She was using beans from two different freezer bags this afternoon. She showed me how to bring them up to temperature by cooking them in a large granite pot. While they were getting hot, she had the jars she was going to use soaking in hot water in the sink. She put the lids in a small pan with hot water and good them good and hot, as well.

When the veggies were hot, she used a funnel to get the beans into the jars. She puts a half teaspoon of sea salt into the bottom of each jar before adding the veggies. She ladles the beans into a jar, packs them down a bit with a wooden spoon, then ladles in the hot bean water into the jar up to the place where the screw lid fits. She uses tongs to pick up a lid from the boiling water, puts the lid into a screw cap, puts the lid and screw cap onto the full jar, then picks up the jar with a tea towel and tightens the screw lid on as tightly as she can by hand. The jar goes into the pressure cooker on an insert round tray in the bottom of the pressure cooker. Her cooker holds 4 pint jars. When she has them in the pressure cooker, she adds some water, then fastens on the top of the cooker and puts it on the stove to build up pressure until the regulator ‘jingles.’ Then she set a  timer for 10 minutes. She watched the cooker from time to time turning the heat down because the regulator was jingling too fast. When the timer went off, she moved the pressure cooker off the burner to cool by itself.

When the regulator hisses only a bit minutes later, she took off the top and used a jar lifter to move the jars from the cooker to a towel on the counter. As the jars got cool enough, each would say, “POP!” as the top made a good seal, being sucked down onto the jar. What an exciting sound!

She did two batches of green beans and then a batch of tomato sauce using the hot water bath method.

She used a juicer to prepare the tomatoes, putting in a whole handful of small tomatoes directly into the juicer. The juicer put the pulp, seeds, and skin on one side while pouring the juice into a container on the other side. She processed all of the tomatoes this way, then ran the pulp/seeds/skin stuff through the juicer one more time. This saves a LOT of effort, making the prep of the tomatoes easy.

As this point, she said you could simply freeze the juice to be canned later, or go ahead and do your batch. She combined the fresh juice she has just made with a frozen batch, heating both together in the granite pot.  She filled the jars with the hot juice, the way she did with the beans. She put the jars into a neat insert in the large canning pot. She can do 7 at a time. When the jars have been boiling for 10 minutes, she uses the insert to pick up all the jars out of the water at once, then uses the jar lifter from there. They cool on the counter, popping as the seals show they’re good.

She had a few beans left today, plus a bit of tomato sauce. She put the leftover into a bag, let it cool for a bit and then will put it in the freezer, to wait until the next batch is done.

What an interesting and fun way to learn the basics of how to can! I have a good idea of what I’m supposed to do now. I had fun visiting with my friend, who has a great sense of humor. Her son – who makes Kay look like she fell in a hole – was great fun, too. Kay even gave me some tomatoes, and a small, white “Scallop” Squash.  I’ve never seen or heard of these before. Kay says they’re really good sliced thinly, coated with a bit of flour and fried.  I’m going to try this tonight!

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I felt like a little kid on a new adventure, with a whole new world opening!

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