Stressful Couple of Days

Dr. Jamie Hardy

Harvey is on his way back to the nursing home after being taken by ambulance yesterday to the intensive care unit in the hospital for pneumonia and low blood oxygen.

We went to see him yesterday and couldn’t be sure he knew we were there. Today he knew us, but didn’t communicate. His caregiver from the nursing home was there today when we arrived. There was a nasal tube and I.V.s everywhere. He did open his eyes. The bottom line is that we okayed another medicine and are paying yet another huge bill for hospital services. They did put him on antibiotics for the pneumonia.

I was upset because it seemed to me that they were criticizing us for not going for everything they wanted us to do. Brian said I was overreacting, but I guess I’m sensitive when we know Harvey better than anyone and know how he would react to many of their suggestions.

The good news is he will be back at the nursing home this evening with his full time caregiver and familiar surroundings. We will wait to see what happens as far as our next visit.

My stress level is through the roof, but I’m glad that the pneumonia seems to be solvable and that he didn’t seem to be in pain.

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8 responses to “Stressful Couple of Days

  1. rajkkhoja's avatar rajkkhoja

    Thanks, God 🙏! That’s good News the pneumonia seems to be solvable and that he didn’t seem to be in pain .

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  2. Oh my God, Linda! What in the world?!? I’m so sorry to read all this! I can imagine how upsetting this whole scenario is for you ALL. Ugh.
    Big hugs!

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    • Yeah. Pretty stressful. I got upset when I felt they were criticizing us for not doing all they wanted us to do, but I’m trying to put that behind me. We’ll decide tomorrow if we’ll go to the nursing home to see him again tomorrow.

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  3. Sending love. Pneumonia is horrible but the antibiotics will help. X

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