- “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”
―Anaïs Nin
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Writing is a greedy obsession. We write because we HAVE to write. It’s a compulsion, a need to reach out, to connect, to communicate. We would write whether anyone read our words or not, but it feels empty and we lose our enthusiasm, our motivation.
Of all the things I left behind when we moved to Thailand, the thing I wanted to get back as soon as possible was my blog. I tried to write it using my phone, but it was really difficult for me. I’m still learning how to do things on the MAC (I was using Windows), but it’s such a relief to be able to include a picture or two now. I’m not back to full speed with my more ‘normal’ posts yet, but I’m getting there slowly.
For me, the reaching out, the communicating is the most important reason I write. I feel connected to the people who take the time to read my blog. Some have become long distance friends. I love sharing what is happening, how I feel about it, exciting things I’ve seen, new things I’ve learned, wonderfully talented people I’ve found on the net, and more.
Reading comments is an important part of my day. I want to know what you think. Sometimes I get spam or someone being mean for no good reason and I blow those off. More often, I hear that someone has related to something I’ve said, it made them feel, it reminded them of a similar thing in their lives. Sometimes I get treasured messages of support, or kudos because someone likes the way I have written something, or agrees with what I’ve said.
It’s greedy because ‘I’ wrote it, ‘I’ wanted to reach out, ‘I’ put it out there, and ‘I’m’ getting to read any feedback. Me, me, me. BUT – in that greediness, I HOPE I’m providing a real person’s outlook on things, honest appreciation for other’s work, a bit of entertainment or a smile or two.
The blog is good because you can receive emails each time I write, or you can simply come to the site when you’re in the mood and scroll down.
THANK YOU for reading what I write. THANK YOU for hitting the ‘like’ button when you want to. THANK YOU for writing a comment when you have the time or inclination. All are much appreciated. 🤗
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I never thought about writing being selfish, Linda. But I see your point. It is selfish in a way. Sometimes I am reading and replying while sitting right next to others. Mostly I read and comment after going to bed (after hubby falls asleep). I love reading about your day, where you go, and how Harvey is doing (since his fall and stroke). Your lives have changed so much in such a short period of time! You inspire me too!
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I think admitting that it’s selfish is good, particularly if you pair it with wanting to give back to your readers.
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I want to say that I truly appreciate your comments, Sheila.
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I hear you, Linda. I’m all for authenticity, transparency, integrity, and such.
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🙂🥰
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I can identify with this post a lot. The need to write, to reach out, the comments. You nailed exactly how I feel about blogging too!
Thank you.
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You’re very kind. I’m glad you felt the post rang true. Thanks a lot for taking the time to comment. 🙂
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It’s just a good feeling to know I’m not the only blogger who feels this way 🙂
Cheers.
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You are definitely not alone.
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This is amazing and so thought provoking. Thank you for sharing!
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Thanks for your kind words. I’m glad you found it interesting .
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At least you get comments. Sorry, that was greedy of me. It’s hard running a book review (mostly) site. My last post isn’t.
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Doing any writing is hard. Book reviews would be difficult -as you well know- to be honest, not sound like the others, and engage your readers with reasons to read – a more difficult task than ever.
I hear you on the “at least you get comments,” and agree that even a snarky one means someone took the time to write. We just have to do the best we can, encourage each other, and keep on writing.
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My husband keeps asking me when I’m going to start making money reviewing books. I told him to look at the bank account and see books I didn’t buy because I got advanced copies.
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Hahahahaha. Love it!!!🤣
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I enjoy reading your posts detailing your days and adventures, food you tried, places you visited and how your husband and son are doing.
I hope you continue sharing with us.
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I appreciate your feedback so much. I was afraid my readers might find details about a different country boring. I’m delighted you are enjoying it.
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I enjoy reading your posts detail your days and adventures. You tried, places you visited and how your husband and son are doing.I hope you continue sharing with us. Linda.
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Thank you for your feedback, Raj. I certainly will. 😀
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Most welcome , Linda! Iam so happy you understand my poor language 😂.v
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😀
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Thanks!
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